Saturday, May 1, 2010

When Love Falls Short

Sometimes in life, love falls short. Either for the giver or the receiver. Just depends. Sometimes someone, somwhere, down the road, gets tired...exhausted...

What if you spent your entire relationship trying to fix past damage? And what would happen if you managed to fix most of it, but the parts that were left were too old and deep to help heal. I suppose we all need to be team players, especially in a relationship. And yes, sometimes one person has to give a little more. But what if the receiver is always taking? Or bleeds you dry?

It's not as dramatic as it sounds, it's just hard to heal your own wounds. Not impossible just more difficult than usual. It's hard to explain to the person too. Just what you're feeling and thinking. It's like they have an excuse in their head as to why you're upset but that's not really why you're upset. And just getting past that obstacle leaves you so tired that it seems pointless to go on.

I guess the point is to not let love fall short. But if someone can give a guide on getting past the first obstacle...that would be great!

More to come....

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